Feeling Stuck? Get Unstuck and On Purpose in Life – Intuitive Life Coach and Clinical Hypnotherapist
There’s a universal reason for why we fail at things in life, including new years resolutions (which fail 88% of the time). I’m often talking about relationships and getting our life on track after a narcissist, and believe it or not: It’s all related. As an example, I was noticing all of the “engagement grabbing” …
If there’s any time in life when you need to “do the work” on yourself, it’s after a narcissistic relationship. After all, if you’ve been through this then you know the messy shape you’re in after all of the gaslighting and other insidious manipulation. It’s an exhausting “mind-mess” that leaves you feeling like a shell …
Are you struggling to let go of a narcissist? You’re not alone, and it happens to the best of us; including myself. You know on some level that the marriage or relationship is toxic. You know that it’s not really good for you. But you stay stuck because of the awesome memories of when things …
Narcissists are annoying, irritating and unbelievably ridiculous. They push our buttons in every way possible, and their insidious behavior makes us want to shout out to the world: “Can you believe this idiot?” Or if they’ve thoroughly pounded OUR self-worth into the ground, then WE feel like the idiot. They abuse us mentally and emotionally …
Stop it. Just stop it. The GUILT, I mean. When we put up with the devaluing because we think we deserve it. The truth is: NO ONE DESERVES IT. For example: There are narcissists who love to prey on married people. It’s an ego boost to go after someone who’s already committed to someone else, and then …
After a relationship with a narcissist, we’re coming off of an emotional roller-coaster, and we’re shocked by what we just experienced. Then the self-loathing and blame begins (and it often starts during the relationship, when we’ve realized it’s not what we thought it was.) And since we made the decision to be with this person, …
Do you need validation that you’re not crazy? Do you wonder if you’re “normal” and not a narcissist? Are you wishing you could save the new “supply” from having their life destroyed? I understand… At one point I spent months talking to a counselor, just to get validation over the way I felt about the …
After a relationship with a narcissist, we can easily feel stuck; ruminating about what happened, or what should have been. Our self-worth is at an all-time low, we feel exhausted and we can be dealing with a variety of grief stages including anger and depression. But after all of the gaslighting and other types of …
Anger is huge after the breakup with a narcissist. It can also show up in the form of depression (or anger turned inward). And we have every right to be angry after the stark realization of who the person really was. It hits us hard, as we realize that we never really knew the person. …