Back in the day, I was very much in my head. But that’s how I HAD to be. I was trained to analyze every nook and cranny, searching for anything that would be a red flag. Why? Because it was my job to decide whether we should loan millions of dollars to various corporations, and …
No, you’re not stupid or crazy. It’s narcissistic abuse.
(This article is from Kathleen’s stories on Medium.) I don’t know who needs to hear this, but here goes… You get into a relationship with someone who tells you the most wonderful things. They press all the right buttons: Mentally, emotionally and physically. They tell you that it was fate and destiny that brought you …
Getting Out of Deep Stuck-ness
Ever find yourself spinning your wheels over and over again around the same issue? I once took a group coaching program that was filled with “great” content. I was trying to make progress around a specific problem, and even though I studied the course thoroughly, took copious notes, and implemented the process… A year later, …
I’ve Learned this one Over and Over…
Being in my head TOO much sent me in the wrong direction time and time again. In order to find my way to the “right” career, relationship, place to live, etc… I had to do this: Stop taking action that made “sense”. In other words: Stop analyzing. When I was in the corporate world, I …
When We Find Ourselves In A Place That We Didn’t Expect…
👉 Sometimes we find ourselves in a place that we didn’t expect to be in. We thought the marriage was “forever”. (It seemed like true love.) 💔 We thought the career was the “right one” for us. (Maybe we even studied it in college.) 🎓 We used to love the place we’re …
The Decade from Heck (Crazy Times)…
They say that when we go through several major life transitions in a short period of time, it can push us to the brink. (There’s even a scale that measures it.) And there’s a recent decade that I’m often surprised I survived (there were massive life changes: One after another.) I managed to ride the …